Comments on: How should I feel about my husband working offshore?

By: smile123

smile123 — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 20:24:59 +0000

Sure you are sad,but some time in life you don't get what you want everyday.any how he not going out of you life just for work support the family.he loves you and trust you what do you want more than that.you always in his heart,be strong and be happy and let him go with smile.in future you be happy for this time.my marriage just like yours.but i always support him,no matter what.you not complain,but you so sad,it's very sweet and loving.but let him do what he need to do.
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By: luvspiritnature

luvspiritnature — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 20:13:59 +0000

Do be prepared to be self sufficient for a while.
You say you’re a supportive wife but you are not being supportive about his decision. Sometimes you have to give in. You can do this. In the long run, the security that he’ll be able to provide will create peace and happiness in your future. It’s worth the sacrifice.
Also know that his sacrifice is greater than yours by choosing to do this. Offshore work is VERY hard and he will be lonlier than you.
The bright side is that this will make him value his family and home life more than ever when he’s home and when he’s done and it’s time to settle.
Get the condo.
Make the changes and the sacrifice. As long as you stay strong, faithful and optimistic and supportive through it all, you’ll be so glad you did in the end.
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By: dani girl

dani girl — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 20:04:59 +0000

its ok to be sad….. thats totally understandable… offshore is not "single" stuff i know a man who was married for 30 years who did it. its difficult and yes dangerous sometimes but he is trying to take care of you and doesnt want to leave you in his moms basement when he is gone.. let him take the lead here and try to be supportive. you sound like a great person my advice only is to never spend money you dont have! aka credit cards, loans etc…. anyways you will be fine!
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