How do can i build self esteem and be confident?
Im never confident of myself, i never believe that im beautiful, or anything. Something i can do possibly?
Ive already tried therapy. the doctor said im just a spoiled brat 
im fit, i swim every day in summer. i have shoulder length brown hair, caramel, black, and blonde highlights. im tan. i have hazel eyes. i have a "bf", although some people say im too young.
isee you need to know how old i am… uh… yeah… im only between 11-13.
i have this exact same problem :’(
im quite tubby and ugly and i get called allot because of it. i find when people call me ‘ugly’ or ‘a ‘fat’ i come back with a comment like i may be fat but i can loose weight but you cant change your face…. also when i get people being nasty i usualy just say ‘im me and that what i want to be…. i dont go around copying any old trend…. i like being me and if u dont like or respect that the why are you waisting your time calling me because of it’ …… i get this alot i had to have counciling because of bullies i know alot of different ways like i do….. i draw a circle and split it into 8 and do good points about my day and bad points and i put it in a big box and at the end of the week i look inside and add up how many good points i have and see which has the mijority. And once in a while look in the morror and think i am beautiful and pretty.
my motto is – I AM WHAT I AM AND NOBODY CAN CHANGE THAT!
i hope this helps!
e-mail me if you like 
bb1992uk@yahoo.com
btw – sorry about spelling
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maybe therapy.
help me?
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try complimenting urself and having fun and standing up for what u believe in
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feeel pretty
smile
have self-confindence believe in yourself =]
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try working out.
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First, you have to start lovine yourself the way you are and no matter what other say to your face or behind your back, you will always know that you are a strong, confident and amazing girl who can succeed in anything and everything she does. Accept yourself for the way you are and then everything else will surely fall into place.
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My favorite teacher gave me this exact speech last year and it really helped me to become the confident girl i am who can take on anything! I really hope this will help you! Email me at nkrulesalways@yahoo.com! bye!!!
Know that the only person you have to impress is you.
Nobody has a person that sits right next to them throughout their life telling them each step they are beautiful or wonderful.
That is why it is so important to love yourself. You won’t always have others who will show you that they do.
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By the way it sounds… there is no reason to not be self confident with yourself =]
UR FINE!!!
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Well, try to ask people about your strongest and weakest points. Then, work them properly. Sounds fair.
Anyway, the essential is to be happy and hard-working. The rest will come together.
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how old are you?
First hold your head up– realize that you are great and beautiful and that people are jealous of you. Know that you are RIGHT (you are a woman and women are ALWAYS right
!) , that you are special and that God made you different for a reason– He gave each of us something special, find what that something special is about you and OWN it– make everyone see it and acknowledge it.
**also if you are still in school, dont worry about the BS, let ppl talk, they will and believe me, its the ones who talk about you behind your back that you dont need. Be you and let anyone who doesnt love you for you kiss your big fat BUTT!! They dont matter, YOU DO!
Love yourself, do nice things for no reason– take a bubble bath, get your nails done, fix your hair different, wear extra make-up, dress sexy…do things that make you feel special and confident!
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my lil sis is around the same age and she has really low self confidence…… i just make her give herself compliments everyday…. and when she says something like im "fat or ugly" i punch her….. yeah
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i have this exact same problem :’(
im quite tubby and ugly and i get called allot because of it. i find when people call me ‘ugly’ or ‘a ‘fat’ i come back with a comment like i may be fat but i can loose weight but you cant change your face…. also when i get people being nasty i usualy just say ‘im me and that what i want to be…. i dont go around copying any old trend…. i like being me and if u dont like or respect that the why are you waisting your time calling me because of it’ …… i get this alot i had to have counciling because of bullies i know alot of different ways like i do….. i draw a circle and split it into 8 and do good points about my day and bad points and i put it in a big box and at the end of the week i look inside and add up how many good points i have and see which has the mijority. And once in a while look in the morror and think i am beautiful and pretty.
my motto is – I AM WHAT I AM AND NOBODY CAN CHANGE THAT!
i hope this helps!
e-mail me if you like
bb1992uk@yahoo.com
btw – sorry about spelling
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my experience